1.19.2015

This way of life


Vi à dias este documentário e mexeu tanto comigo que quis partilhá-lo aqui. É inspiradora a forma como esta família vive, principalmente, e o que mais me toca pessoalmente, são os valores, a forma como educam os filhos.

"I think that's a huge price to pay for people who don't get things right in this life and don't treat their children right or their spouses right or their fellow man right or themselves right" Peter Karena




Shot over four years, This Way of Life is an intimate portrait of Peter Karena and his family. Masterful in the saddle and Hollywood handsome, Peter lives by an internal code of values and honor largely lost in modern times. Though European, Peter was adopted into a Maori family and is Maori in all but skin. He is a horse-whisperer, philosopher, hunter, and builder, a husband and father. Despite seemingly overwhelming challenges, Peter refuses to compromise. Especially troubling to Peter is his broken relationship with his adopted father a malevolent man who refuses to leave him alone.


Peters wife Colleen Karena (Ngati Maniapoto) is the keeper of her familys taonga tuku iho (heritage). A true matriarch, Colleen sees family as the center of the universe and mothering as the worlds most important job. As the film progresses, we discover her quiet exterior conceals a profound and beautifully articulated approach to parenting resulting in the physical competence and emotional openness of her children.



The film portrays the intimate life of the Karena family. In their early 30s, Peter and Colleen have six kids and 50 horses. We follow them up into the Ruahine ranges and down to their hidden beach camp. Against these isolated backdrops we explore family relationships, their connection to nature, their keen survival skills and their absolute intimacy with each other and their horses.



We watch as Peter and Colleen celebrate the birth of a child and cope with a late miscarriage. Their attempts to navigate the discord between Peter and his father culminate in the theft of his valuable herd of horses and the burning of their beloved family home. Now homeless, we watch as Peter steers his family toward a new way of living and being. Regardless of their hardships, the Karenas manage to never lose sight of the magic in the everyday.



Nowhere is this more apparent than in the Karena children. Untamed and unafraid, the idea of risk is alien to them. To watch seven-year-old Aurora expertly ride a massive stallion bareback with no more than a rope halter asks us to reexamine our ideas of what children are capable of.



In This Way of Life, the Karenas unite their philosophy with their circumstances, turning hardship into a meaningful and satisfying life.



www.thiswayoflifemovie.com



1.13.2015

Dinah

Li à cerca de 8 anos o livro "A tenda vermelha" da Anita Diamant. Já tinha praticamente esquecido a história. Este fim-de-semana vi a mini-série.
Recomendo vivamente a todas as Mulheres, a leitura do livro e/ou verem a série.


DINAH,
Homenageio-te. e a todas as mães, fortes, sábias e cheias de amor.

1.10.2015

janeiro ao sol

Janeiro chega e eu não me contenho. Des-conformo-me com a conformidade e "calmaria", hibernação aparente dos meses anteriores. Quero renovação. Há um sentimento de mudança interior que extravasa e me move. Quero mover-me. Revolver a água estagnada. Abrir a comporta e deixar o rio fluir.
Nos anos em que nenhuma perspectiva de mudança se afigura no meu horizonte, mergulho ainda mais na hibernação e fico assim, quieta e inactiva, no meu bucólico dia-a-dia, até que os primeiros sinais de primavera se sintam.
Valha-me este sol que em todo o seu esplendor tem irradiado a sua luz e que não me deixa adormecer.
Sei que a chuva é preciosa e que ela virá e espero recebê-la com gratidão, para que no verão não haja "seca". Mas este sol... é minha fonte de energia.

Perspectiva-se, finalmente, uma mudança de casa... Espero não ser cedo demais para falar. Ainda nada é certo, apesar de já o ser, na minha mente e no meu coração.



1.04.2015

Feliz 2015

Desejo que a vista verdejante me acompanhe sempre, o som dos pássaros e dos badalos dos rebanhos. O nascer e o por do sol. Calma, suavidade, uma vida macia.
Desejo a todos vós o que desejarem com mais força no vosso coração.